So, three months after having that discussion, I’ve implemented your advice (@MedTechCD & @Gerald) and I can already feel a considerable improvement.
TLDR: I started running and cycling at Meffetone or Z1 HR, and as soon as 4-5 weeks I already saw improvements. I was also feeling zero fatigue.
My week usually looks like this: I run Monday and Friday, easy runs that get longer and longer. It’s a bit hard for me to stay disciplined and run at Maffetone, so after a couple of weeks I switched from Maffetone to Z1. Still not fatiguing, and not slow enough to drive me crazy. I do indoor cycling Tuesday and Thursday, at Maffetone HR. On these days I also usually swim about 1000m (I’m very new at swimming, swim very slow, it mostly feels like recovery). On the weekend I do a long (4-5 hours) MTB ride. I also try to get one or two resistance training sessions and a weekly hour of yoga.
Every other week or so I do a harder session instead of one of the four easy one. Usually it’s something like 30-40 mins of easy run/ride, and then 15-20 mins of harder work (hill running, vo2 interval cycling).
My results are still very bad
but getting better.
For example, my 10km PB was about 1:07:00, and I remember feeling half dead at the end, with HR close to threshold (as estimated by garmin and intervals) for most of the run. In the last few week I’ve been setting a new PB every other week or so without even trying and while staying in Z1 for about 80% of the run, barely ever getting higher than Z2 (I live in a hilly area so there are some spikes). Today I ran 1:03:20 during my usual Z1 run.
Again, thank you for your advice and generous sharing of your knowledge and experience, and especially for helping me get over my ego/enthusiasm.
Edit: I forgot to mention volume changes.
Running: used to be ~15km a week, and is now ~22km.
Cycling: I don’t trust the numbers my indoor trainer outputs, but I’m up to ~3hrs (used to be ~2hrs).
My weekend ride used to be ~40km, and is now ~50km (usually more than 50).
Other improved numbers: fitness and fatigue, garmin’s estimates of vo2max for running and cycling, running pace at z2, z1 and Maffetone hr, and I think also cycling ftp (but can’t be sure if so and by how much).